This is some covert misogyny shit!
If you keep telling little boys that being good or nice gets you pussy, then they will always think that’s the only reason to be nice ro good, and when they don’t yield those results, then we have problems. Then we have the “angry nice guy”, who believes that his being nice and friendly to a woman he is attracted to means he should be rewarded by her puss puss, when all she wanted was friendship. Then you have men who only give up their seat to a girl and try to get her number; now she’s uncomfortable. However, will he do the same for a older woman? I’m saying, stop tell people that being a gentleman will get them pussy, and teach them that being a honest man will get you respect, being compassionate will get you honor, and being a thoughtful individual will get you self respect. Don’t go doing things with the expectation that a woman will reward you with her sex.